Adopt a Child; Save a Child today from Poverty

I wish i could do something and help these kids one day.

Russel tells the truth (Video)

Single; By Choice or No Choice

When everyone around you is either married or happily attached, does that make you feel like you need someone in your life too.

Or The constant pressure from society that you should be married by now?

When I mean society I mean my family.

Do I enjoy being single, “hell yeah, I can do and go where ever and whatever I want to do and go”

Have I ever felt lonely?

I’m not denying, at times I do but I’m use to it. Honestly I’m too use to it that I don’t think I can share my life with anyone else. I guess I became a little self-centered that everything should be about me.

Right now, I just have to many things that needs my attention like my career, weight issue, learn a new language and how am I going to support my family when it’s time for them to retire soon.

29 and having too many responsibility and growing up to do, maybe it’s a small sacrifice I can do for my family who have spoilt me and by taking a little time off from meeting my soul mate means nothing at all.

Now, I just don’t have the time to search, but if there is someone out there for me I’m sure they would cross my path.

Why do couples fight?

1. They love each other too much
2. The opposite attracts
3. People have their own opinions
4. It’s obvious they have had sex “otherwise the guy would be really
understanding and gives into everything till he gets into her pants”
5. Possessiveness

Maybe it’s just love. Some people just show their passion differently and that’s what you like about them. If you feel he/she is not the one for you and that you are wasting your time with them just call it off. There are plenty of Single people ready to mingle. But one advice makes sure you take your time to find the "one". Don’t just be with someone because you just need to.
P/S: Don’t talk about your EX.

Top Ten Most Beautiful Indian Women

My colleague Tu Tu asked me a Question: Who is the most beautiful Indian Actress right now, I just had too many people in my mind. So I come up with my own list of beautiful women.

10. Priya Mani
9. Nayanthara
8. Shriya Saran
7. Kangana
6. Sada
5. Anushka
4. Priyanka
3. Deepika
2. Asin
1. Aishwarya Rai








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Australians Racist or Indians are?

Australians Racist action, was it prejudice or Karma; Indians being brutally murdered in Australia was the head line news of last year. The numbers of victims were countless, but were they asking for it. I don’t really care because no Tamilians were hurt.

I’m not racist but I am of an Indian origin too but the way it works in our community we are divided into groups; by caste, religion, colour and status.

Indians; are the most racist people or the only race in the world who is racially prejudice towards their own people and people of their own origins.

And that is why I chose to be with people of my own ethnic group too.

I guess i have the right to be bias too right.

So why Indians are sensitive when people from other ethnic group are racist against you when you are racist to people from your own origin.

Maybe its Karma....

Sarong Party Girls (SPG)

Embarrassment or a Joke!

Old, Ugly, rejects, geeks and losers who are not able to get a life partner or GF “come-on down to Singapore” a land of girls whom are hard up for anything white.
Friday night at Attica;

A popular night spot for Caucasian men in Singapore, to pick up Asian women whom are there for their attention!

Seriously, what’s wrong with these women? Why put them so low and hoping to meet a white guy.

Some Singapore gals just have no brain.

If only it was the opposite way!

White/American Bastards

Heartless bastards Vs Powerless Men


Mother Fuckers; You don’t even have the respect for someone’s religion.


Whatever their crime was they need their right as humans just like you and I. You treating them this way, you are just provoking the innocents to join the war.

"White Only" Jobs in China

Read an article on Sunday times, on white only Jobs in China. Singapore print has some guts to actually comment on these.

I think it's a case of the pot calling the kettle black.

The last 3 years, getting a Job is Singapore was tough for any locals. Most of the low wages Jobs were taken by the PRC and the management positions by the Whites.

Making all Singaporeans stuck in the mid level jobs. So many times I ask myself, why did I even go to college to get a degree?

Higher salary package, Better benefits, transport allowance and a condo to stay and working 8.30 to 6.00 Mondays to Fridays and have all the time to play with their
free time and extra cash.

While the locals here, have to settle for a job that least allow them pay their bills and to get through the month.

How many of you have less than 6 hr of Sleep a day? How many of you spend 12 hrs a day in your office, and work even on Sat? How many here has 2 jobs? Is this the future of Singapore?

This is not going to stop me or put be down; I am going to work twice as hard to get there and to prove to these people that I would be an asset to them one day and not wait for opportunity to knock my door.

Suicide; is not an answer.

Whatever might be the reason; it’s not worth to end your own life.

Cases

1. Love

If you have a love failure and before you even think of doing anything foolish to prove your point just take a sec. to think that after you have gone your ex partner will still move on with his/her life.

The only way to get back with them, live and show them what they have lost.

2. Financial/Debt

Seek help from family and friends. Talk to someone there is also a way out.

3. Low self-esteem

Life is hard, life is precious. Everyone is different that quality would make you unique and beautiful.

Anyone needs a shoulder for comfort, or just need a person to talk. You may write to me @ xander.jey@gmail.com; i will get in touch with u ASAP

Re-birth and life after death, Myth?

Are we afraid to die? Or Are we in denial by creating theories to accept death.

Everyone has that fear, but we all will have to expire one day.

I am sure the real fear is not existing and to be forgotten.

I have a mix feeling towards, re-rebirth and according to “Brian Weiss” he believes not only in re-incarnation but also in soul mate. He mentioned in one of his book that we will meet our soul mate through any form in a lifetime.

There could be millions of theories build to make us consider in life after death or re-birth.

Regardless, I would like to take this opportunity to say; “Value your life in this life-time, there is so much to see, learn and to give”.

If guys were like Girls (Video)

Team Jacob! hehehe

BOoooooooooo

I miss Casper…...

Wish he was my friend…

I think everyone needs a Casper; esp for ppl like us…Single and Miserable

But seriously how many of you wanted to be a ghost.

Casper made dying fun…

I wanna have fun too, I know who I’m gonna haunt


BTW; The movie was great

NEWS or Just Being Petty

A place for ppl to vent; or just complain?

Stomp; It's is a good place to find out the ugly side of Singaporeans.

I do give, Two thumbs up to the site which allows everyone to share their opinions through forums, comments and post.

Although Topics being posted by the public, are full of crap.

This is NEWS


Singaporean's Being Petty


Why cant a father feed his hungry child?


Why cant couples show their love in the public?




Why cant ppl make- up in public?


If he wants to stand, just let him be.


Why cant a maid have boyfriend or have a good long conversation on their mobile?

I’m not denying but I do visit the site every now and then to see how "lame" one can get.

1 question, "shall we use our Tax $$ to hire police for petty complains".

Seriously, Get a life ppl....

www.stomp.com.sg

There are people in other parts of the world faces real problem such as poverty, war zone countries, refugees, racism, violence and man are being treated worst then an animal in Guantanamo prison.

There is so much of topic that needs attention in Singapore too, maybe you may want to consider topics that matter.

Warm It Up (Video)

Hahahaha,

Two countries, shares one flag...

India should be divided into two, just like Korea.

There should be South and North India

Seems like no one likes to associate with each other in any way mainly by color or religion.

East Indians; Are they confused or in denial?

1. To be not associated under the dark skin category, they invented a new color, "wheatish".

2. Most Singapore Indian claim that they can’t speak their own language.

*at least converse in proper English!

*Research shows that, one should be well verse in one language or two for ethnic

*Unless you are stupid or just need to go for speech therapy.

3. Thinking it’s cool to be ard with the majority ethnic grp and to make fun of your own to be accepted.

4. Being racist to your own ppl, by color, religion or cast.

5. Using fairness cream on your face when your ass is brown .

6. Marrying/dating another ethnic person not because you actually love them but feel more accepted by Society.

*Off topic; just popped in my mind: have u ever notice an Indian guy with an Asian gal, if you fail to notice them he make sure you do..hehehe

"If you are seriously ashamed of who you are and of your identity, pls marry someone from another ethnic grp and make sure your children does the same so that your race would end with you"

B'day

Every 5th April, ten min before midnight, I would be asked to go into my room because; I would be sleepy. Then exactly 12am, I hear my family screaming out loud "surprise, happy birthday". OMG I totally am, hehehe...but seriously I look forward for it every year.

I guess the real surprise would be if one year they decided not to do it because I whine and bitch about how fake it is. (It’s my way of being humble by saying “you shouldn’t have”)

Then I go back to my room stand in front of the mirror with a cake, and place my birth certificate and cry myself a river "why was I born"...

Well, whatever it is. It’s always nice when your loved one remembers the day and makes it special for you. And by now you guys know that presents make happy :)

You may get me

1. Tennis racquet
2. Cologne
3. Gift cards
4. A pair of hand cuff (hmmm don’t ask)
5. $$$ Cash would be great

You should consult me for these options

1. Shoes
2. Cloths
3. Belt
4. Bags
5. Wallet/key pouch

I love surprises too.. hehe

Camera in foreign worker domitory

It is common for foreign worker dormitory operators to install closed-circuit television cameras at the entrances to their buildings and in other common areas, to monitor any shenanigans involving the residents.

But one operator in Jurong West has gone a step further and installed two cameras on the ceiling of the common toilet, which houses shower and toilet stalls, urinals, and a row of wash basins.

Lockson Hydraulics, which runs the dormitory and is also a scaffolding company, said the cameras – part of a network of 24 electronic eyes on the premises – were put up to deter water wastage after its water bills soared and repeated calls to its residents to save water went unheeded.

But the presence of the cameras has raised the ire of some workers and welfare groups, who complain that the invasion of workers' privacy has gone too far.

A 37-year-old Indian national, who recently moved out of the dormitory to stay elsewhere, said: "We cannot accept this. It's the toilet, how can you put cameras? We're all men living together, but this is ridiculous."

A spokesman for Lockson, a 35-year-old company, whose director is Mr Kang Yee Yin, 38, said the cameras were installed a few months ago, after which the monthly water bill dropped by about 20 per cent, although he did not give exact figures.

MP Halimah Yacob, who often speaks up on foreign worker issues, said: "Cameras there are an invasion of privacy. It doesn't matter where they are pointing, they shouldn't be there in the first place."

*Article from straits times

"This is very wrong morally; it’s an affront to human dignity."

Seriously SGporeans are sick mentally, they either mistreat their maids or any other low wage foreign worker.

Hate, Love, Want and Miss

Hate

I'm not a big fan of Japanese, Korean and Chinese food
I hate crowded trains and public transport
I hate ppl whom are embarrassed of their own identity and whom are shy to converse in their mother tongue
I hate the fact that, I don’t have the time for social life and can’t spend some quality time with my family and friends.
I hate being broke.

Love

I love staying home on Sundays
I love my morning coffee (cuppa chino - low fat milk with brown sugar)
I love spending time with my family esp. My lovely niece and nephew
I love getting presents on my birthday and Christmas
I love shopping

Want

I want to go to spa every week
I want to work for a magazine or on a travel show as a host.
I want to migrate anywhere out of Singapore (Brazil would be nice)
I want to go for holidays every 3 months or go on a Europe trip, road trip in US or travel ard India for a year.
I want a car.

Miss

I miss partying with friends and cousins
I miss staying home doing nothing
I miss my college days
I miss going to concerts
I miss being goofy

Death Sentences

No one has the right to take someone’s life, period.

Sentencing one to death for drug trafficking is not acceptable. SGpore may be the only developed country that practices sentence by hanging to death.

We are not living in B.C but in the 21st Century, certainly not barbarians are we.

People make mistake in life, and everybody deserve a second chance. We are all born on this earth once and there is no life after death or reincarnation

It’s easy to take someone’s life but it’s not easy to console those who have lost them.

In my opinion the worst punishment one could ever have, life imprisonment not by death when they don’t get a chance to regret.

Why do we even have rehabilitation centre when we don’t give them a chance to cure.

Did you know the sentence for drug trafficking in Indonesia is death by firing squad?

I hope at least in the next century life has more value than just writing it off with a pen.

Mentally Challenged

It could be someone close to you.

Are Singaporeans so ill-bred, that they would make fun of mentally challenged.

I was shocked to hear that they had a Bollywood themed party inspired by “Bollywood train Dancer”.

What's next; a television show on, "crazy chinese uncle who sings and dance from Aljunied to City hall station".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63NSt9tiY7o

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/3552/4124/276544

I truly feel sorry for these people and would like to apologize on behalf of these illiterate people.

P.S: My mama taught me better then that

Weight is a like roller coaster ride? And fat people need loving too!

This ride is one hell of a long ride up and not seems to be coming back down back to gravity anytime soon.

Well anyways, I gave myself till August to reach my ideal weight. “It is now or never for me”

I have been going to the gym regularly since mid Feb, playing squash and going for a late night walk with a friend at the reservoir near my place on Saturdays. In the next two month I am planning to go for yoga, strength training and swimming.

Have any tips; feel free to give me some advice.

To make this more challenging, I will set a target, to lose 12kg by 1st May 2010.

Watch me Shrink

Cougar Town – Every Monday @ 10.00pm “Don’t Miss it”

Move over Jennifer; here comes Courteney… Season 1 is coming to an end soon and Monday night will never be the same again…

I think it is about time they made a show about older single women, who just wanna have fun, they have their needs too. Gone were the days when women were called all sorts of nasty names for dating younger men. But now, it’s the IN thing. Being brought up by a Single mom who just turn 48, she has very reason to live her life too.

The show is a about a divorced mom with a teenage son. Having her best friend living next door whose husband is a huge fan of the "Golfer" who is Courteney’s ex-husband. Things get even complicated when she dates a younger men and she brings him home where she lives with her teenage son.

It was just like when I was 17 when my mom did the same, I reacted differently. I was such a Classic Drama mama.

I guess sometimes shows like this that broaden ppl’s mind. Okay, maybe it just looks cool because they are celebrities. In reality it takes time for everyone to accept…I do now, maybe because I’m 25

Can’t wait for Season 2

Never Trust a Girl on a Donkey

Remember it was in 2002 when my Gd friend Serene and I had a pact that, If she turns 30 and we both are single we should get married. Same time I had a backup plan, in case if serene has a special one in her life so Sofie and I will get married...
Doom to be single - I have to make new plans – looks like they both found their “boooo”

ARE THERE ANYMORE SINGLE PPL ARD? IT’S LIKE THE ENTIRE WORLD IS MARRIED OR GETTING MARRIED…

Should I ever trust another gal who seats on top of a Donkey?

Or should I just get a dog and name it “Dr. Waffles”

P.S: If Dr. Dre can be Doctor so can my waffles…….